1.?Life?Struggle----生命的拼搏?
对强者而言,磨难犹如刀剑,使他愈见锋芒,诚如孟子所言:“天将降大任于斯人也,必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨”不经过磨难的生活,日子未免过得乏味;不经过磨难的命运,人生便显得苍白。就生命而言,总是从平坦中获得的效益少,从磨难中获得的教益深。
Once?upon?a?time?in?a?land?far?far?away,?there?was?a?wonderful?old?man?who?loved?everything.?Animals,?spiders,?insects...
One?day?while?walking?through?the?woods?the?nice?old?man?found?a?cocoon?of?a?butterfly.?He?took?it?home.
A?few?days?later,?a?small?opening?eared;?he?sat?and?watched?the?butterfly?for?several?hours?as?it?struggled?to?force?its?body?through?that?little?hole.?Then?it?seemed?to?stop?making?any?progress.?It?eared?as?if?it?had?gotten?as?far?as?it?could?and?it?could?go?no?farther.
Then?the?man?decided?to?help?the?butterfly,?so?he?took?a?pair?of?scissors?and?snipped?off?the?remaining?bit?of?the?cocoon.
The?butterfly?then?emerged?easily.But?it?had?a?swollen?body?and?small,?shriveled?wings.?The?man?continued?to?watch?the?butterfly?because?he?expected?that,?at?any?moment,?the?wings?would?enlarge?and?expand?to?be?able?to?support?the?body,?which?would?contract?in?time.?Neither?hened!?In?fact,?the?butterfly?spent?the?rest?of?its?life?crawling?around?with?a?swollen?body?and?shriveled?wings.?It?never?was?able?to?fly.
What?the?man?in?his?kindness?and?haste?did?not?understand?was?that?the?restricting?cocoon?and?the?struggle?required?for?the?butterfly?to?get?through?the?tiny?opening?were?Nature's?way?of?forcing?fluid?from?the?body?of?the?butterfly?into?its?wings?so?that?it?would?be?ready?for?flight?once?it?achieved?its?freedom?from?the?cocoon.
Sometimes?struggles?are?exactly?what?we?need?in?our?life.?If?we?were?allowed?to?go?through?our?life?without?any?obstacles,?it?would?cripple?us.?We?would?not?be?as?strong?as?what?we?could?he?been.
And?we?could?never?fly.从前,在一个非常非常遥远的国度,有一位心地善良的老人。他喜爱一切东西,动物啦、蜘蛛啦、昆虫啦。
一天,这位善良的老人在树林里散步的时候,发现了一个蝴蝶的茧。他把茧带回了家。?几天后,茧裂开了一道小缝。老人几小时地坐在那里,看着蝴蝶挣扎着让自己的身体从小缝中挤出来。后来,蝴蝶破茧好象停了下来,没有什么进展了。看来蝴蝶好象是撑到了最后,再也不可能前进了。
看到这里,老人决定帮助蝴蝶。于是他找出一把剪刀,把茧剩余的部分剪破了。这样,蝴蝶就轻易地从茧中脱出来了。
但是,蝴蝶的身子肿胀着,翅膀又小又皱。老人继续观察着蝴蝶,因为他期望着这样一个时刻的到来:蝴蝶的翅膀会变大,大到能支持它的身体,而蝴蝶的身体届时也会缩小。可是什么也没有发生。事实上,这只蝴蝶的余生中就只能拖着臃肿的身体和萎缩的翅膀爬来爬去了。 它永远也不能飞起来了。在好心和匆忙间,老人并不理解,蝴蝶破茧而出时需要的那种束缚和挣扎其实是大自然用来将蝴蝶的体液挤到翅膀中的方法,这样,蝴蝶一旦能从茧中脱出,就能准备好飞翔了。?有时候,挣扎正是我们生活中所需要的。如果我们能得以毫无障碍地走过一生,这会使我们软弱。我们就不可能变得强壮。重要的是,我们就不可能腾飞。
2.坚持你的梦想?I?he?a?friend?named?Monty?Roberts?who?owns?a?horse?ranch?in?San?Sedro.?He?has?let?me?use?his?house?to?put?on?fund-raising?events?to?raise?money?for?youth?at?risk?programs.?I?he?a?friend?named?Monty?Roberts?who?owns?a?horse?ranch?in?San?Sedro.?He?has?let?me?use?his?house?to?put?on?fund-raising?events?to?raise?money?for?youth?at?risk?programs.?
The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, "I want to tell you why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from farm and ranch-to-ranch, training horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was asked to write a paper about what he wanted to be and do when he grew up.
"That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot house that would sit on the 200-acre dream ranch.
"He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, 'See me after class.'
"The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, 'Why did I receive an F?'
"The teacher said, 'this is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. You he no money. You come from an itinerant family. You he no resources. Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You he to buy the land. You he to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll he to pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.' Then the teacher added, 'If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will reconsider your grade.'
"The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father what he should do. His father said, 'Look, son, you he to make up your own mind on this However, I think it is a very important decision for you.'
"Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same paper, making no changes at all. He stated, 'You can keep the F and I'll keep my dream.'"
Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, "I tell you this story because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of my 200-acre horse ranch. I still he that school paper framed over the fireplace." He added, "The best part of the story is that two summers ago that same school-teacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week." When the teacher was leing, he said, 'Look, Monty, I can tell you this now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During those years I stole a lot of kids' dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption not to give up on yours.'"
Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. Questions:
1.Who told Monty to keep his dream? 2.What's Monty's dream? Does it come true? 3.人生絮语:爱在心里成长
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
When the door of hiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. 中文:
或许是上帝的安排,在最终找到知音之前,我们总要遇到一些不尽如意的人,只有这样,我们才能对知音这份礼物充满感激之情。
一道幸福之门关闭时,另一扇就会打开。我们经常太多太多地只看见关闭的门,而对开
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2014年4月网络刮起一阵“反心灵鸡汤”旋风。[1] 用来反讽内容陈词滥调,过于功利或空乏,令人麻木的文章。
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在世界上,每个人都是独一无二的个体,各有不同的内涵与特质,各自的成长环境与出身背景也不尽相同。即使是双胞胎,面貌相似、生活条件一样,但他们终究是不同的个体,人生际遇和休闲兴趣也各有差异,所以我们何必强求自己事事实与别人相同呢?不要一味的模仿别人,怕自己落伍了,就赶紧有样学样和大家一起流行。人之所以可贵,在於能自我主宰,爱自己就是能深刻了解自己,认识自己,接纳自己的一切,一言一行都有自己的个性,做自己的主人,认清自己,肯定自己,脚踏实地的活出自我,这才是最重要的。
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问题三:心灵鸡汤什么意思啊 温暖人的小故事,小文章
问题四:心灵鸡汤是什么意思 心灵鸡汤,就是“充满知识与感情的话语”,柔软、温暖,充满正能量。心灵鸡汤是一种安慰剂,可以怡情,作阅读快餐;亦可移情,挫折、抑郁时,疗效直逼“打鸡血”。这也是“心灵鸡汤”风靡不衰的原因。大众化口味,励志化包装,快餐式文本,无需动脑就可脑洞大开。当前快节奏的生活和无处不在的压力,偶尔也需要这种激励味十足的“语言艺术治疗”。
2014年4月网络刮起一阵“反心灵鸡汤”旋风。用来反讽内容陈词滥调,过于功利或空乏,令人麻木的文章。
中文名
心灵鸡汤
外文名
Chicken Soup
定义者
杰克.坎菲尔(JackCanfield)
适用范围
意志薄弱人士
实质
一种精神安慰剂
涵义 听语音
人不只胃肠有饥渴感,心灵也要给养,于是就有了“心灵鸡汤”。“吃”多了,难免会花开两朵,要么腻歪,想换口味;要么痴迷,至死不渝。“反心灵鸡汤”没有“心灵鸡汤”的温暖,但某种程度上有着与“心灵鸡汤”相同的功效,味道是辛辣、扎心了点,却一样提供慰藉心灵的能量。众口难调时,多一些选择,未尝不是好事。不管什么“鸡汤”,可口、怡情就好,大不必太放在心上。
心灵鸡汤是安慰剂,不能当饭吃;也不宜过量,这样无异于精神毒品。我们应当理智面对我们面前的问题,而不是一味的寻求安慰剂,去逃避。
范围 听语音
2014年4月网络刮起一阵“反心灵鸡汤”旋风,各类段子引发网友追捧,相关话题更是成为新浪微博上的热门话题,上万名网友参与讨论。
1.非一流学校的大学生。真的不是歧视,这个现象太明显了,空间里李嘉诚的谆谆教诲,基本上出自这些人之手―肯努力但天资一般的人最容易成为成功励志学的俘虏。
问题五:心灵鸡汤中的鸡汤是什么意思?
问题六:心灵鸡汤这个词是什么意思啊? 是一些充满哲理,能够触动心灵及洗涤心灵的故事. 读完后让你感觉犹如喝了鸡汤般的美味.
问题七:心灵鸡汤是什么意思? 《心灵鸡汤》(作者:杰克?坎菲尔、马克?汉森)是世界上最畅销的系列读物之一,以其简短、精炼的语言为读者讲述了一个个充满哲理的小故事。现指有益于精神或心理的充满哲理的小故事。
问题八:心灵鸡汤是什么意思 就是一些大道理 可能谁都懂 但是没人会按着去做 现在来说 心灵鸡汤可以算一个贬义词了